I have been privileged to help people feel healthier for the past twenty five years
The breadth of my clinical experience covers anxiety, depression, ME/CFS, trauma, anger, forensic issues, relationship problems and severe mental health problems.
On top of that I am a published author on traumatic stress, mental health advocacy, therapeutic environments and therapeutic relationships. Presenting scientific papers at national and international conferences. Practical blogs on how to come unstuck in therapy, put words to desire, have better sex, and/or build social relationships. I have also written personal articles about my own experience of anger, anxiety, depression, ME/CFS, our secret relationship with money and how to take personal responsibility.
All across my life I have developed a preferred practise of helpful relationships. These co-productive relationships are, in my experience, the most effective way to feel healthier. Creating new experiences, useful to you. This page further details my career and my specialism of helping by example. I also invite you to ask me questions about my background, clinical psychology qualifications, training and ongoing clinical supervision. I look forward to hearing from you.
Finally, for a full video introduction of I work an interview with Dr Andrew Perry (2021) with Dr Natalie Bodart
Brief introduction
MY career
1998-2002
A mental health advocate at Lynfield Mount Hospital in Bradford.
2003-2004
An assistant psychologist with the NHS in Gateshead.
2004-2007
A trainee clinical psychologist with the NHS in the East Midlands.
2007-2009
A clinical psychologist with St Andrews Healthcare in Northampton.
2009-2010
A clinical psychologist with Greater Glasgow NHS Trust.
2010-2017
A clinical psychologist with The State Hospital NHS Trust.
2017-2019
A clinical psychologist with Cyrenians in Bathgate.
2019 to present
A clinical psychologist in private practise.
My specialism: helping by example
How many therapists' does it take to change a light bulb?
One, but the therapist has to change first.
This is helping by example. The therapist changes first to help the customer.
'What are you getting paid for?’ I heard myself ask. I looked around to see who was listening. Quickly realising I was facilitating a group and had not prepared this intervention. I noticed how the group had gone silent and its customers looked towards me. Patiently waiting for me to answer my own question. I stumbled ‘I am paid to lead’. Lead with what? ‘Lead with my vulnerability.’ I stumbled again, ‘I am paid to trust you before you trust me.’ It sounded good enough. Relieved, myself and the group relaxed. The conversation moved on but the question, for me, remained. What am I actually getting paid for?
What do I do that has a monetary value beyond that of the customer? It is also a challenge for the customer. Couldn't you get that elsewhere? What about cheaper or free? Why, sometimes, it may be a good use of your money to pay for a psychologist. At the very least, I hope you will agree, it is always a good idea to know what we are paying for when we are buying something.'
I change first
'In therapy the customer gets the credit. The therapist succeeds by failing the customer's way. Bearing the consequence of that failure. Namely redundancy from temporary employment. In my experience this is a disciplined and effective way of being with people. Admitting our mistakes and trying not to repeat them. Accepting the complaint, anger and disappointment of the customer without retaliation. Responding in an adult way to the customers corrective criticism. Exploring what has happened between us. Breaking the comfortable lock of complementarity. Letting go of a fantasy of being the complete, innocent, blameless therapist. In these ways the therapist is paid to change, in order to help the customer. And so in the end, my first answer to the group was not a bad stab at the value added. What am I getting paid for? Paid to lead with my vulnerability, then to follow yours, to a place of greater psychological health.'
This is a summary drawn from my full article What are you getting paid for?
