It describes four possibilities, for making two mistakes, in sex. Providing ways as to how they might be avoided. The two mistakes are considering other people too little and sabotaging our wider goals. Mistakes that have traditionally been set apart. t disregards everyone's capacity to make these mistakes. Making those mistakes more likely to happen. As if the mistakes could not be understood and thus minimised. This blog is my contribution towards ending that oversight.

I am part of a wider problem of people not talking about their money. In fact, people would rather talk about their sex lives than their money. I also know that, secrets deny other people the benefit of our experience. Leaving us 'bearing the agony of an untold story.' So to be part of a positive change, I will use this blog to describe my relationship with money.

I am part of the problem of forgetting experiences of anxiety. As if remembering anxiety made it more likely to be repeated. In fact, what cannot be remembered is more likely to be repeated (Freud, 2006.) So in this blog I will remember some of my struggles with anxiety. Creating, additional, helpful memories of my anxious experiences.